This is another example that is used to support
the disfellowshipping practice. It's the example of a man having an affair with his own mother. Let's examine this example closely.
First
of all Paul again is writing this letter to the church at Corinth. It is thought to have been written prior to Passover about 55 AD.
Notice the words 'Unto the church of God which is at Corinth...' (1 Cor. 1:2) So the instruction is written to a body of believers,
not a certain evangelist, such as Timothy. It was their collective responsibility to deal with the problem, not a specific minister.
Another
thing we can glean from this first letter is that the church at Corinth had not grown that much, spiritually, since it's inception.
Even though it had been over 20 years since Pentecost in 31 AD they still were carnal. (1 Cor. 3:1-3) Knowing this, it must have been
quite difficult to live in a city such as Corinth with it's temple prostitution and other sinful practices and not be affected. It
could very well have been a city very much like the city of Sodom in which Lot lived.
Paul no doubt felt a deep responsibility
to write a stern warning to wake them up. He had been told of the goings on in that city and probably understood the conditions there.
None-the-less there could be no excuse for the kind of behavior of some man carrying on with his own mother this way. It had to be
dealt with!
So he wrote the letter, and since it was prior to the Days of Unleavened Bread he also used it as teaching a lesson
of how leaven works in our lives. Just a little can affect the whole lump. He was all the more disturbed about the situation because
they felt good about themselves in that they were able to tolerate it. They were puffed up. So Paul proceeded to give them instruction
of how we are to hate these kinds of things. Not that we hate people but the sinful behavior generated by the society around them.
Writing
to the Church at Ephesus Paul basically said the same thing. This church area, no doubt, was afflicted with the same type of society
at that time. In Ephesians 5:11 he admonishes them 'And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove
them'...
Again the scripture is consistent in this regard that if you continually rub shoulders with people of a corrupt nature,
it's going to rub off. You will eventually be affected. Take a look at 1 Cor. 15:33 Paul says 'Be not deceived: evil communications
corrupt good manners'. The Greek word here for communications: is 'homilia' meaning 'a being crowded together. The word for manner
is 'ethos' meaning habit. So a good rendering of this verse could be 'Don't kid yourself, if you continue to tolerate evil, you, yourself
can be corrupted and develop the same kinds of habits.
But let's be honest about it. This example of the immoral person in 1
Corinthians 5 is far different than most disfellowships you and I have been familiar with. Most of the problems in the church start
small and grow over misunderstandings of doctrine or leadership and are perceived by some as leading to divisions. They are not one
and the same and to use this as supporting the practice of disfellowship is misapplying scripture.
'Now we
command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly,
and not after the tradition which he received of us.'
This is another verse which some might use to claim it's okay to 'shun'
a person in the church. It's also used in support of the practice of disfellowship. So again the verse must closely be evaluated on
the context in which it was written and held up to the instruction Jesus taught and lived.
The Young's Concordance renders the
meaning for withdraw as 'to withdraw self, avoid, beware of.‘ So Paul is instructing the Thessalonians again to beware of and stay
away from the brethren who are practicing a certain manner of living. Those who walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which
he received of us. What's he talking about?
And when Paul is mentioning the tradition he handed down to them, he's simply saying go to
work and earn money to provide for yourself and your family. Don't mooch off others. Be productive. It was his example and was what
he wanted them to do.
This instruction is not to shun or stay away from the people but rather from the behavior of those who
were being disorderly. It’s the behavior that is the problem not the people. Again, like Eph. 5:11, he says 'have no fellowship with
the unfruitful works of darkness but rather reprove them...'
The fellowship one is not to have is with the unfruitful works of
darkness, not people. So when this verse is used to support disfellowship, it's taken out of context and is wrong.
Christ’s Example
When
it comes to disfellowship, how does it square with Christ's example and teaching? We must look closely because he says 'Enter ye in
at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leads to destruction and many there be that go in thereat. Because
strait is the gate and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.’ (Mat. 7:13)
Furthermore he
says 'Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of Heaven: but he that doeth the will of my father
which is in heaven.' (Mat. 7:21)
So here Jesus is telling us to search diligently and follow after a certain way of life; a certain
way that leads to life. He further indicates that it is only those doing God's will who are allowed to enter. (Mat. 7:21)
So
what is God's will concerning disfellowship? Let's look at a key scripture. 'Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in
heaven, that one of these little ones should perish.' (Mat. 18:14)
So who are these 'little ones'? Is Jesus talking about children?
Let's look closely. To get the context of what God the father's will is concerning these 'little ones' we have to back up to Mat.
18:1. In Mat. 18:1 it says the disciples came to ask Jesus about who would be the greatest in God's kingdom. By this time, being with
Jesus day and night, they may have begun to feel a little exclusive as to their own importance and they wanted to find out. So Jesus
began to teach them.
So He called a little child and set him in the midst of them. The Greek word for 'little: is 'mikros' meaning
small. It's no doubt the root word for microscope, microns, etc. Therefore the little child was small, possibly less than 5 years
of age. But is it little children he is talking about?
In verse 3 he says 'Except ye be converted and become as little children,
ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. The word 'converted' comes from the Greek word 'strepho’ meaning 'turn'. So He's saying
a person must turn and become as a little child.
He goes on in verse 4... 'whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little
child... and whoso shall receive one such little child in my name... but whoso shall offend one of these 'little ones' which believe
in me...’
There's the clincher... a 'little one' who believes in Christ. Can a little child believe in Christ... a little child
less than 5 years old? Well ...maybe, but we can see from the previous verses it says 'as a little child.’ It's quite obvious Jesus
is referring to an adult person; a person new in the faith or someone who may not have grown very much.
Just because a person
is a 'little one', it doesn't mean he or she just started attending services. They may well have been attending for years. They may
well have been persons very much like the people in Corinth where Paul said they had not grown very much... even in 25 years. He said
they were in need of the basic essentials of a little child getting started in life. For Paul says 'I have fed you with milk, and
not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able.' Notice John 16:12. Jesus is telling his own
disciples He had something to tell them but said they were not able to 'bear them now.' Can we get the picture. The Corinthians as
well as Christ's disciples at one point in time were small. They were adults, not children and yet they were small spiritually. They
were yet 'little ones'! (1 Cor. 3:2)
So if a 'little one' seems to be questioning something and is viewed by some to be causing
division, should he or she be suspended? Should they be disfellowshipped... put out of the church? Does a minister know the heart
or intent of the individual having the disagreement? Is it his job to know? Could the minister be wrong? What if the minister offends
one of these 'little ones' by suspending or disfellowshipping someone?
Look at the example of David being anointed as king. Samuel,
Was ready to pick Eliab as God's anointed, but the Lord said unto Samuel, 'look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature...
for the Lord seeth not as a man seeth: for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.’ (1 Sam. 16:7)
Imagine that! Here was a man, Samuel, who was close enough to be able to talk to Christ, about to make a mistake in selecting a person
to be king, whom God says he did not recommend. Can you fathom that? Now if Samuel could make a mistake like that do you not think
it possible ministers, too, can make these kinds of wrong judgments concerning those they view as causing division? Think about it...
But
you say, someone has to make these calls, these judgments ...but...what about Matthew 7:1-5, where Jesus is giving instruction on
judging. He says 'Judge not'. Is this for the rank and file member only? And does it mean condemn only? Some have said this word 'judge'
should be rendered as 'condemn' and the statement in Mat. 7:1 should read condemn not.
The Greek word for Judge is 'krino'. It
can mean condemn but it can also mean 'call in question, conclude, decree, determine, esteem, ordain, think, or my sentence is'. Out
of 107 times where ’krino’ is used only six render it as condemn or damn. The rest are those mentioned. When we look closely at Matthew
7:1-5 the context clearly indicates that it does not only mean condemn. In verse 2 He says 'For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall
be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.' So clearly this is not only condemning people. This
is 'concluding, calling into question, decreeing, determining, esteeming, ordaining, thinking, or sentencing.' It's a general statement
of the way we deal with other people is the way we will be dealt with. In verses 3-5 Jesus gets a bit more specific when he shows
how people are prone to look at the faults of others when the fault is with themselves.
So when a minister makes a decision to
suspend or disfellowship, he is clearly 'judging' in the broad sense of Matthews usage. Could this be a violation of what Jesus told
us not to do?
All of the splits and schisms since
Mr. Armstrong’s death seem to be late testimony to the judging mentality. Why
can't we be more tolerant of each other?? Let iron sharpen iron. Have a little thicker skin and let people have the opportunity to
express themselves. Let the congregation have the ability to be exercised to discern right from wrong and to grow thereby; to lay
this responsibility on their shoulders instead of on the shoulders of the ministry. Laying this responsibility on the shoulders of
the ministry often leads them to remove that person from the fellowship of the congregation. Why? The reason, as stated before, is
to be able to nip the problems in the bud and get rid of the rotten apple before it has time to affect the other apples.
Look
at the parable of the tares. This parable Jesus gave indicates there is danger in removing tares from a wheat field ...even when you
know absolutely which is a tare (weed) and which is wheat. Could there be a greater purpose for weeds and wheat to dwell together
until the harvest? Leaving them together they both struggle for survival. It's possible some of the wheat can be choked out, but by
the same token struggle produces strength. Do Christians need to be able to deal with these kinds of problems and build strength while
doing? If we never have to answer questions of why we do what we do and do so without the minister intervening, what kind of strength
are we building?
It goes back to our purpose for being? Why is God only calling some now? Why the first fruits? Why is God teaching
and training some now? What kind of training is going to be necessary to be on the team in developing a peaceful 'World tomorrow'?
Think
about it... When Christ returns to this earth His first mission is to go to war ...to put down rebellion. But how will peace really
come and how will it continue to grow and be maintained? That's where the saints come in. The people now trained in exercising forbearance,
longsuffering and patience are going to be those Christ will use to build the peace. Can Christ use someone who is trigger happy or
quick to remove people causing trouble? Is this the way He wants things done? Will peace suddenly happen when He returns?
Jesus
says 'blessed are the peacemakers'... We must be learning that job now. To grow in longsuffering we have to have something to suffer...long
with. Much like a weight lifter. To build muscle a weight lifter must push against a greater and greater force. To build patience
and longsuffering we need to be exercised also. The only way possible to build these character traits means being in an environment
where you get hit on from time to time. Suffering wrongfully allows us to build strong spiritual muscle...Removing someone from the
fellowship of believers who seems to be contentious, just because he or she may not understand something the way you do, only removes
the opportunity to grow in that regard.
How many 'little ones' have been put out of the church since the church began? how many
'little ones' have been uprooted because some other member has been told not to come to church and they were offended by that? how
many people have stopped coming when they see the hypocrisy in people shunning or avoiding contact with others because they've been
told to do so. Young people especially are keen to see this hypocrisy the same way God does.
In Isaiah 65:1-5 God says those
who He 'spreads out his hands to' walk in a way that was not good, after their own thoughts: a people that provoke me to anger continually
to my face ...which say to one another 'Don't come too close, you'll defile me! For I am holier than you.' (LB) Wow! Could this possibly
be giving us a little insight to what God really thinks of how we suspend or disfellowship. Read on..."They stifle me...they infuriate
me!" (LB)
What would we say if God tells us it makes him mad every time a person is removed from the body of believers. Especially
if He hand picked that person to be called into the fellowship in the first place? How serious is it? God hates sin, but He does not
hate people. His way is constantly seeking out ways to find that one that goes astray, just the opposite of disfellowship.
As
stated above, most often when a person is disfellowshipped, 1 Corinthians 5 (LB) is used where incest was taking place and Paul gave
the instruction to remove that person from their fellowship. But how often are you told the second half of that story? If Christ inspired
the first letter to be written would he not have inspired the second. Let's see what he said.
'Remember that man I wrote to you
about, who has caused all the trouble,... I don't want to be harder on him than I should. He has been punished enough by your united
disapproval. Now it is time to forgive him...otherwise he may become so bitter and discouraged that he won't be able to recover. Please
show him now that you still do love him very much.' (2 Cor. 2:7-8)(LB)
Did you get that? Paul is saying to the congregation ...not
the ministry, that, just as with a united disapproval they removed him, they, unitedly need to contact him and forgive him. It does
not say here that the man was sorry for what he had done. Maybe he had repented. Another view could be taken, however, in that by
contacting the person, actively going to the person, being willing to put the past in the past, it might lead to his ultimate repentance
... which is toward God.
Editor's Note (Added on 12-19-06):
Paul isn't going to have them go out and bring back into a congregation
of God's people a man who is still having sex with his mother. If that were the case then why throw the man out in the first place,
let him stay and practice his sin. The whole point was to show the man that what he was doing was wrong in God's eyes and that a whole
congregation should not be tolerating such sin. God doesn't forgive you before you repent, so why would Paul teach anything contrary
to that in this case?
The Bible does teach that this man was sorry and repented, see 2 Cor. 2:7 which says: ‘So that contrariwise
ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch (extreme) sorrow.’
There
is no sorrow if the person is not sorry. Paul wanted the congregation to seek the man out and let him know they forgave him so that
the man would not be over taken by his sorrow for what he had done, which was a sin. Laura Lee
Disfellowshipping-A Work of the
Scribes and Pharisees
In Matthew 23:2-3 Jesus said, 'The scribes and Pharisees sit in Moses' seat: All therefore whatsoever they bid
you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works; for they say, and do not.'
Jesus acknowledged their position...
their proper role in teaching the people. They were the educated and rightly needed to be teaching the things Moses instructed centuries
ago. And He said all that they tell you to do from that instruction, given long ago, was proper, was right, was from God and needed
to be obeyed. But in the same sentence, when Jesus is telling them what to do he is also telling them what not to do. He says 'do
not ye after their works'.
The word work comes from the Greek word ‘erqon' meaning 'deed, doing, work'. So what were some of
the deeds the Pharisees and Scribes were doing. The Scribes and Pharisees were good in making themselves look 'good'. But behind the
scene, they were guilty of 'extortion' and 'excess' among other things. (Mat. 23:25)
When we think of extortion, we think of
someone demanding something (usually money) from someone or else... Or else what? Well,...there is a penalty. If you don't pay up
we'll throw you in jail ...or worse if like the mafia...blow you away. So extortion indicates using the position of leadership in
a 'lording over’ type way, intimidating the people to obey or pay the consequence'.
Look at John 12:42. Here was Jesus going
about teaching people and doing good. He went to church, kept God's Holy Days and did all the things required, but He didn't fit the
stereotypical person that the leaders thought, should be, of a true follower of God. Consequently there was a... 'division among the
people because of him.’ (John 7:43) And 'Nevertheless among the chief rulers also many believed on him; but because of the Pharisees
they did not confess him...' (John 12:42)
Why not? Why not talk openly about something or someone doing good? What could be the
harm in doing that? Well, you say nothing, but why didn't these leaders want to voice their belief? Read on...'lest they should be
put out of the synagogue:'.
Just like extortion for money, there was an extortion to remain a good church member. And in order
to do so, you could not have any other opinion about any other person, no matter what good that person was doing. If it did not conform
to the leadership's view, you were guilty of the infraction and would have to pay the consequences. In this case be put out of church...
suspended or disfellowshipped.
In John 9:22 it says 'the Jews had agreed already, that if any man did confess that he was Christ, he
should be put out of the synagogue‘. In fact Jesus foretold this would happen in our day. He said ‘They shall put you out of the synagogues:'.
Hold on!! It gets worse. He says 'yea the time cometh, that whosoever killeth you will think that he doeth God service'. (John 16:2)
Seems impossible that it would be possible. Hard to believe but there it is. Does it seem any less likely then that some minister
could eject a person or suspend a person from attending church thinking they are doing right ... 'doing God's service'.
Now think
for a moment is Jesus saying true Christians would be put out of churches that plainly are not following the Bible as their authority?
No way! In this society today many churches exist that call themselves Christian. They claim to be Christ's but don't even keep the
same Holy Days as Christ kept, much less the Sabbath. True Christians would not be put out of a church they know is not the one Christ
built and is building. True Christians would be suspended, and told not to come, ‘marked' or disfellowshipped from the 'body of believers'.
But
again, why would people be put out then as well as now? The answer is right there in John 12:42. The reason they, at least many of
the leaders were tight-lipped about supporting Jesus, was that 'they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God'. These leaders
were concerned about their position ...their status... and possibly their paycheck as well as their impression with the people. They
were such a tightly knit group-so focused on every little detail, they overlooked the obvious.
Do you think times have changed
that much from then to now? Take a look at the young man who was blind from birth and Jesus healed him. (John 9:34) The Jews were
so steeped in their own self importance it was they who were blind and not the young man who was healed. Look at the attitude they
displayed to the young man. Why who do you think you are? 'You were altogether born in sin and do you teach us?' Don't you realize
who we are and all the education we've had ...how can you possibly know something more than we do? Why we know you, you've not gone
to college. What can you know about the scripture? We're ministers, we're highly educated. We not only went to college, we were at
headquarters and have pastored many churches since and you're sitting there trying to tell us something!! Ridiculous! ‘and they cast
him out‘.
Again, I won't belabor the point but one of the 'works' they seemed to be involved in, in Jesus day was putting people
out of the church. Now you or I can't put people out or suspend them. After all we are not the 'authority', but to be a good church
member we must go along with the decision and shun them who are put out ...or else that just might be our fate as well. It becomes
a matter of intimidation and it was a `work' of the Pharisees in Jesus day and something He told his followers not to have a part
in.
Disfellowshipping Still Practiced-Long After Church Began
Were they still putting people out of church after Christ went to
heaven? Apparently so. Take a look at 3 John 10. It says Diotrephes would not receive certain people in the church and to those who
did receive them he cast them out of the church. What does this look like? It isn't specific about why he put them out except that
Diotrephes 'who loves to have the preeminence among them'.
Apparently this had to be someone who may have been ordained at one
time to such an office, because he claimed the authority to boot a person out of the church for one reason or another. This also couldn't
have happened unless the people accepted the practice, or at least went along with it, fearing themselves, to oppose it, lest they
be the ones to be thrown out.
Now who were these brethren who were being thrown out? The answer to this question is all of 3
John. John starts out the chapter by praising certain, of the brethren for receiving people for their courage 'as', they, ‘walkest
in the truth. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth'. Some, such as Diotrephes, didn't think they were
walking in the truth but others did. And what did John say? He said they were faithful for receiving such. Notice verse 5. 'Beloved,
thou doest faithfully whatsoever you do to the brethren, and to strangers'...What? 'to strangers,. Apparently here you had some who
were showing kindness to some people who were not even members of the church, and because of that John praised them for doing so.
But, again, what did Diotrephes think of it? He ejected them from the fellowship.
Doesn't this have a ring of present day application?
I think we can safely say it does. The reason being is that basic nature is the same today as it was back then.
Summary
We can
see certain sections of the Bible that seem to indicate support for disfellowship, but when we hold them up to Christ's teaching to
love and forbear with one another the answer is clear. His desire is for reconciliation and not disfellowship. Only then can we expect
our prayers to be heard. ‘First be reconciled to thy brother...' (Mat. 5:24)
When we look closely also, we can see the Pharisees
practiced suspension and disfellowship and it certainly looks like one of the 'works' Jesus said his followers were not to do. Therefore
it is not a Christian practice to be part and parcel with. Many mainstream Church of God churches today talk a good line about going
back to the faith once delivered but in actual practice follow in the footsteps of the scribes and Pharisees. Jesus said 'except your
righteousness exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees ye shall in no case enter the kingdom of heaven.' (Mat. 5:20)
therefore it should be something we look long and hard at and come away from.
The real essence of God's will is in Mat. 18:11-14.
'For the Son of Man is come to save that which was lost. how think ye? If a man have a hundred sheep, and one of them be gone astray,
does he not leave the ninety and nine and goes into the mountains and seeks that which has gone astray? And if so be that he find
it, verily I say unto you he rejoices more of that sheep than the ninety and nine which went not astray. Even so it is not the will
of your father which is in heaven, that one of these 'little ones' should perish.'
God's will is to 'seek out',... look for ways
to encourage and exhort. Our calling is to 'walk ...with lowliness and meekness with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love
endeavoring to keep the bond of peace. (Eph. 4:1-3) This is our mission and part of the great commission' in 'teaching them to observe
all things that I have commanded you;' (Mat. 28:20)
Let's be about our Father's business.
COMMENTS FROM THE EDITOR:
Arlan
has put a lot of time and thought into this study paper, which is very well researched, gentle and to the point. It may be the thought
of some people that Herbert Armstrong's name should be left out, and that probably past affiliations should have been called former
associations, and I suppose that would be fine except for one problem; why does one have to hide those things, block them from view,
or try to make it look as if they never existed. It is my opinion that one should not have to hide those things, which brought us
to where we are today. Just because we mention Herbert Armstrong, or the Worldwide Church of God, doesn't mean we are dwelling in
the past. These are just facts from a persons past, and things which when one refers to them shows, ya, I was in Worldwide, Oh, so
was I, small world. Referring to these landmarks of the past is what keeps us from forgetting where we have been, so that we know
how to proceed in the future. It is what makes us all human and just like the next guy.
In about the 12th paragraph Arlan makes
a couple of statements, he says ‘All' of us were in some way or other taught by Herbert W. Armstrong and Ambassador College. 'Most'
of what we were hearing and studying was honorable, was right, and was the truth.' Darwin pointed out to me that some people might
take offence at these statements, so I looked at them closer, and left them in, because the study paper is not mine, and because both
of these statements are Arlan's opinion, and the way that Arlan sees it, and there is nothing wrong with that. The only reason I bring
it too the readers attention is that I wanted to tell you all ahead of time, that I know that Arlan didn't write anything in this
study paper with the intent of offending anyone. I guess the key words in those two statements would be the words 'All' and 'most'.
Darwin thinks a better word there might have been 'much’ and I think ‘All’ is incorrect in that many heard about God by studying their
bibles, and had no contact with Herbert Armstrong, Ambassador College or the Worldwide Church of God. I believe, that anytime someone
writes something, and you read it, you need to look closely, at which things are facts, and which things are opinion. We need to practice
discernment, or we will all be in a perpetual state of being offended.
A good example of being offended, would be the fact that
Darwin and I are both disfellowshipped from the UCG-IA, and today we were at WalMart here in Bismarck, and one of the people who are
to avoid us was all of the sudden in the same isle with us, and I'll tell you she couldn't get away from us fast enough. Should we
be offended? We certainly have good reason to be, but, no, we weren’t. I have great compassion for her. It looks like in my opinion
that UCG-IA, told the local congregation to be nice, but avoid us. What a mind bender that is. As she rushed to get away from us,
she said 'Hi, there‘, with no smile on her face. I felt good about saying 'Hi' to her, she was not happy, If she were happy about
avoiding us, wouldn't she be smiling? We can smile, because we're not trying to avoid anyone, even those who we know don't want anything
to do with us. Laura Lee